MatsyTheDoctor
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A good farewell.
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I'm going to be going away for some time.
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I'm not positive if I'll be returning to my DeviantArt account at all.
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Derp.
2 min read
Welp, I think I might be taking a long break from this website.
No real reason except as of right now, I'm having extreme writer's block.
I'll be more entertaining later, haha.
No real reason except as of right now, I'm having extreme writer's block.
I'll be more entertaining later, haha.
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Sadness within these walls of my heart.
2 min read
Although I'm no longer with my girlfriend as of 6 days ago, one chapter of the book of my life has closed.
Thus, my friendship with her now blossoms!
Although it is very slow and painful getting to the point where we're close friends and not a couple, I know it was the best decision.
I care about her deeply, that hasn't changed, and we still worry about the other.
I just want her to know that no matter what happens in our lives, we'll be close friends until the end of time!
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11 More Days Left~
3 min read
I have eleven days until it's my second month anniversary. 
Last time I checked, I was still a week into my relationship. 
My Kanojo has the tummy flu and since I can't be with her right now, I do my best to make her happy. ^-^
I've decided that if it were possible, I'd play Nurse Kareshi! 
Heh, I think the thing that I really would love to do is snuggle with her. 
I do intend on doing the best that I can to be there for her and take care of her even if I'm 2.4K miles away. 
The thing I did notice is that distance makes the heart grow fonder and I do believe that. 
My Kanojo is very beautiful and she means the world to me.
She says the sweetest things and her heart is made of gold.
I'm really honored to be her Kareshi. =]
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Defining Someone.
4 min read
I find it very interesting when someone's like, "You define a man by X, Y, and Z."
But the truth is, there are many types of men out in the whole universe.
There are men who love sewing, cooking, crocheting, gardening, etc.
There are men who do sports, know how to build things, repair items, and whatnot.
There are other men who love to paint, sketch, draw, giggle, watch chick flicks, and the like.
There are men who love action films, cars, and music.
I don't feel that there is one definition out there to define a man and I believe a variety is best.
Just because a man does something that society sees as "feminine" doesn't make him any less of a man in my opinion.
So what if he doesn't know a lick about sports, yet knows multiple cooking techniques?
What if a guy has a high pitch voice? Does it make him less of a man?
I don't believe that at all, and I think it's about time people saw men in a different light.
Society needs to also work on how they look at women too.
Just because a woman might like sports, lifting weights, and/or building things doesn't make her less of a woman.
I don't like it when I hear some people say, "Oh because so and so does this, he or she must be gay."
Being gay isn't a bad thing and I don't know why people get so offended by it.
There's a variety of people in this world: men and women.
Shoving people in boxes or closets isn't cool. Boxes and closets are for clothes and such, not people.
And if you don't agree with me, that's perfectly fine!
This is just my opinion on the matter.
But the truth is, there are many types of men out in the whole universe.
There are men who love sewing, cooking, crocheting, gardening, etc.
There are men who do sports, know how to build things, repair items, and whatnot.
There are other men who love to paint, sketch, draw, giggle, watch chick flicks, and the like.
There are men who love action films, cars, and music.
I don't feel that there is one definition out there to define a man and I believe a variety is best.
Just because a man does something that society sees as "feminine" doesn't make him any less of a man in my opinion.
So what if he doesn't know a lick about sports, yet knows multiple cooking techniques?
What if a guy has a high pitch voice? Does it make him less of a man?
I don't believe that at all, and I think it's about time people saw men in a different light.
Society needs to also work on how they look at women too.
Just because a woman might like sports, lifting weights, and/or building things doesn't make her less of a woman.
I don't like it when I hear some people say, "Oh because so and so does this, he or she must be gay."
Being gay isn't a bad thing and I don't know why people get so offended by it.
There's a variety of people in this world: men and women.
Shoving people in boxes or closets isn't cool. Boxes and closets are for clothes and such, not people.
And if you don't agree with me, that's perfectly fine!
This is just my opinion on the matter.
I find it interesting how some people try to define what a man and woman are.
Like there's just ONE definition, but the truth is that there isn't.
There's a variety of people and each like their own thing.
Some men might like cooking while others like sports.
Some women might like sports while others like gardening.
The point is that trying to define what a man and woman are just by using stereotypes is idiotic.
"You're a man and you don't like sports then you must not be a real man!"
OR
"You're a woman and you love sports then you must not be a real woman!"
As ridiculous as those two statements above are, yes they're stereotypical, and no I don't encourage stereotypes.
The point is: How do you define a "real man" or "real woman"?
Is it by their character, what's in between their legs, or the way they think?
Like there's just ONE definition, but the truth is that there isn't.
There's a variety of people and each like their own thing.
Some men might like cooking while others like sports.
Some women might like sports while others like gardening.
The point is that trying to define what a man and woman are just by using stereotypes is idiotic.
"You're a man and you don't like sports then you must not be a real man!"
OR
"You're a woman and you love sports then you must not be a real woman!"
As ridiculous as those two statements above are, yes they're stereotypical, and no I don't encourage stereotypes.
The point is: How do you define a "real man" or "real woman"?
Is it by their character, what's in between their legs, or the way they think?
I believe it's their character because there are a variety of men and women in the world.
Each one of them is a man and woman to me.
So what if they don't follow every damn stereotype in the book to define a man or woman?
Each to their own, I say!
I might define a man a different way than you do, and that's 100% okay!
I don't believe in a set definition of a man or woman.
I don't feel like they should be defined by their anatomy, but by character.
Each one of them is a man and woman to me.
So what if they don't follow every damn stereotype in the book to define a man or woman?
Each to their own, I say!
I might define a man a different way than you do, and that's 100% okay!
I don't believe in a set definition of a man or woman.
I don't feel like they should be defined by their anatomy, but by character.
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A good farewell. by MatsyTheDoctor, journal
A good farewell.
I'm going to be going away for some time.
I'm not positive if I'll be returning to my DeviantArt account at all.
If you wish to contact me then send me a note.
Derp. by MatsyTheDoctor, journal
Derp.
Welp, I think I might be taking a long break from this website.
No real reason except as of right now, I'm having extreme writer's block.
I'll be more entertaining later, haha.
Sadness within these walls of my heart. by MatsyTheDoctor, journal
Sadness within these walls of my heart.
Although I'm no longer with my girlfriend as of 6 days ago, one chapter of the book of my life has closed.
Thus, my friendship with her now blossoms!
Although it is very slow and painful getting to the point where we're close friends and not a couple, I know it was the best decision.
I care about her deeply, that hasn't changed, and we still worry about the other.
I just want her to know that no matter what happens in our lives, we'll be close friends until the end of time!
11 More Days Left~ by MatsyTheDoctor, journal
11 More Days Left~
I have eleven days until it's my second month anniversary. :meow:
Last time I checked, I was still a week into my relationship. :giggle:
My Kanojo has the tummy flu and since I can't be with her right now, I do my best to make her happy. ^-^
I've decided that if it were possible, I'd play Nurse Kareshi! :heart:
Heh, I think the thing that I really would love to do is snuggle with her. :D
I do intend on doing the best that I can to be there for her and take care of her even if I'm 2.4K miles away. ^^;
The thing I did notice is that distance makes the heart grow fonder and I do believe that. :)
My Kanojo is very beautiful and she means t
Defining Someone. by MatsyTheDoctor, journal
Defining Someone.
I find it very interesting when someone's like, "You define a man by X, Y, and Z."
But the truth is, there are many types of men out in the whole universe.
There are men who love sewing, cooking, crocheting, gardening, etc.
There are men who do sports, know how to build things, repair items, and whatnot.
There are other men who love to paint, sketch, draw, giggle, watch chick flicks, and the like.
There are men who love action films, cars, and music.
I don't feel that there is one definition out there to define a man and I believe a variety is best.
Just because a man does something that society sees as "feminine" doesn't make him any